About Elaine

People often ask me to explain my healing connection with horses, I find it hard to put the answer into words, words don’t ever seem to do it justice, but I’ve done the best I can below…

My Story

Until I was 12 years old, I thought everyone could communicate with animals. It wasn’t until I told my best friend what the neighbour's dog was telling us that I quickly realised it wasn’t normal - the look on her face said it all! From that day on, I hid my additional sense from everyone else. I continued listening to the animals, but I kept everything to myself, no one knew and that was the way I wanted to keep it.

When I was 30, I met someone who immediately turned to me and said ‘you must use your natural healing ability to help horses’. By this age, I was a master at hiding my communication with animals, and to hear a total stranger refer to my healing abilities was a shock to the system. I knew exactly what he was talking about, and this quick message enlivened something within me instantly. It was the answer I had, unknowingly, been waiting for. It suddenly felt like a forgotten part of myself had been greeted and invited into the conversation. I knew there was no going back, and I still feel the weight of those words today. The horses need me.

This conversation sparked a 12 year learning journey. I needed to understand my healing hands, and what I could do with them. The first step was exploring where they came from, I soon found out my grandmother had a similar ability.

During this 12 year period, I healed many horses but felt that something was missing. I didn’t want to just heal, I wanted to provide a completely different approach. For this, I let the horses guide me. I studied all forms of Natural Horsemanship and asked the horses what they thought. I went to competitions and listened to their opinions, I went to a hunt meet to stand and listen, x-country, dressage all forms of equestrian events. The results were amazing, the whispers and screams were heartbreaking and I promised that, in some way, I would try and make people listen. After years of studying, I was told in meditation that I was ready. I took the step of handing in my notice at work. I then gave myself to Spirit and equine healing, the only deal I made was that I needed to earn enough to pay the rents. From then on Spirit became a very big addition to my life, they have joined forces with me and guide me in everything I do.

So what do I call myself? I am a spiritual healer but this title sometimes scares people. I work with energy within the body – slightly more acceptable! But it has become so much more, often a totally transformational experience for both horse and guardian. The healing has become healing of the boy, mind, and soul - full emotional healing enabling the horse and guardian to let go of the past and step positively into the now and a beautiful future

In recent years as I approach my 60th year I have felt drawn to learn more. I have studied shadow work and how it not only affects us but also the horses. The horses can hold themselves back from fully being present because of past trauma. I treated one horse recently who was backed very quickly and very young. Her back was frozen and she saw the rider as a Tiger. For a flight animal this is huge she saw people riding her as being attacked. so we worked through her back releasing the Tiger and giving her power back. 2 weeks later the physio could not believe the softness in her back and the following week she allowed her Mum to ride her.

So you see my journey has barely started, destinations unknown, so I guess I should describe myself as the horse counselor for mind, body, and spirit because when they are allowed to speak their world becomes a better place.

Love and healing to all the horses. Keep calling and I will come.