the bullied becomes the bully

When I heal and communicate with a horse I never know what to expect as they are all so different like you and I. This one horse we will call Gerry, I asked his owner Lyn if there was anywhere he did not like being touched she replied everywhere! I watched why Lyn put on his headcollar and could sense her anxiety and fear. Gerry is a big horse and very powerful, I spoke to him and let him get used to my energy.He was unsure and his ears went back as I placed my hand near him, I carried on talking to him and told him I was not going to hurt him. I took the rope so that I could keep his hind legs away from me and slowly scanned him over. He was a bundle of angry energy and he went to bite me and warned me off. I stood back and looked at him, it was then his energy met mine and he opened up. I could practically taste his disgust of me, he thought I was horse muck on his shoe! I turned to Lyn and said he has a problem with all women he thinks we are weak and not worth bothering with. I carried on telling her that if a man handled him he would be as good as gold but a women there is no respect there at all. Lyn nodded and said "you are spot on" I made sure Lyn was out of the way and then used my body energy on Gerry like another horse would. This women was going to become more dominant, I moved him around for about 5 minutes and then he had a light bulb moment and sighed and relaxed. He was happy for me to be in control. It was then he lowered his energy dropped his head and started to communicate, he showed me men, tough men and he was worked hard. He had been hunted and he learnt to do as he was told but he had been bullied. I turned to Lyn and she confirmed that he had been hunted by men all his life.I explained to Lyn that coming from a tough environment where everything was black and white, you did as you were told or you were beaten. Lyn has caused a grey area because she has wanted to love and understand him, so no one was making the decisions so he did. Basically the bullied has become the bully, I showed Lyn how to work with her body energy and gave them a way to communicate. Gerry is not a bad horse he is actually desperate to be able to accept love and hopefully he will now let Lyn in.x